Have you regretted losing someone because of a small and little misunderstanding?
Have you had conflicts between you and your loved ones and weren’t able to resolve it?
What is the one mistake that many people make today in relationships?
The answer is ASSUMPTION. Today many relationships break or fall apart because of the little assumptions that we made about someone else, which really wasn’t true.
When we assume in any relationship either a positive assumption is happening or a negative assumption is happening. The moment you have started assuming you aren’t seeing people and situations the way it is. You have now created a filter about everything that you are seeing.
The reality is that you need to see the things the way it is. Do you want to have some amazing insights on how you can fix these challenges?
What can be done to avoid this mistake?
- UNDERSTAND THAT EVERYONE WILL HAVE THE PLUS AND MINUS
We need to understand that every person cannot be perfect and only have positive attributes in them, they will have some negatives ones too, that’s where we have to be understanding with them.
- DON’T MAKE YOURSELF MAD IN THE PROCCESS OF OVERTHINKING
We sometimes keep on creating situations in our mind that are not at all true, and these causes distance between two or more people.
- ASK SORRY IF NECESSARY
Asking sorry and apologizing for our mistake is not something wrong, it only makes our bonding stronger. Sometimes if we hurt by the words or actions of somebody, it’s okay to forgive them.
- BREAK THE ICE AND INITIATE A CONVERSATION
Take your phone make a call and start a conversation, and ask for forgiveness for assuming wrong things. Now you need to communicate with each other and resolve these conflicts.
- LEARN TO SEE THE THINGS THE WAY IT IS, BY SEEING IT IN THEIR PERSPECTIVE
Having the attitude of empathy and understanding the other persons perspective is really important, this helps prevent further miscommunications and assumptions in the relationship.
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