4 Types Of Friends You Should Know

Hello everyone, in this video let’s understand about HOW FRIENDS CAN MAKE YOU OR BREAK YOU and we also understand about 4 different types of friends that every individual goes through in different phases of their life. Because it is very important that right when we have gone to for schools, high schools, 11th, 12th and your degree or engineering then any higher studies and even in jobs we call them colleagues like this we get lot friends, It’s very important that like how many of you agree that the whole experience of life will be boring without friends so the friendship place very important role in what kind of things that we experience and what get expose to and what we are going to express in this world. Because if you are the kind of person who is having friends who are drunker, druggies and there what is the kind of experience you get is similar to that and what is the kind of exposer you will have is going to similar to that and also what is that you are going to express is also similar to that.
If you are exposed to friends who are studious like where we all get this kind of friends usually in colleges, that is the first type of friends called GRADE FRIENDS so if you are around them you will be like them – always studious and discussing about exams, what kind of questions to read, and completely involving in that, and if you are with them most of the time then you are going get more if that kind of experience, exposure and you are going to express the same like ‘I too get a good grade and good marks’ so here we need to understand that “We become the average of 5 people we surround ourselves most of the time ” and knowingly or unknowingly we tend to attract the kind of friends who are like us because we like the people who are like us. But sometimes we need to understand the INTENTION IS MORE IMPORTANT because if there is no intention then you will go with tendencies. Because sometimes unknowingly get into some friendship without any intention and that can lead you to completely wrong direction and wrong experience, exposure and wrong type of expression.
So it is important to understand that how friends can make you or break you. This is one topic many people are asking that sir what is really shapes who we experience life? So for that friendship is one of the very important factors that actually create that, because when you hear the word FRIENDSHIP what comes to your mind? Yes, most of the time it is memories. The kind of memories we have with various different kinds of friends. But in colleges, you will find grade friends like people who are going to support you in getting grades and marks.
The second type of friends is GOSSIP FRIENDS or party Friends or enjoyment or fun friends. And these are usually last bench students. But we need all kinds of friends right like we had everything in us so it is important to have both of them.
The third type of friends are like people usually call them as BOY FRIEND OR GIRL FRIEND which is deeper in its own different dimension, so that is where you will see that different kind of experience, exposure, and expression.
But what most of the people don’t experience is the fourth type of friends so I’m encouraged to find such type friends because that’s intention so the first thing is we need to have goals in our life, but sometimes what we try to do is that – I want to achieve goals but you consistently you fail but you never understand why? Then you go with grade friends and share your dreams, goals but they will not connect then you will go and share it with gossip friends and they just make fun out of you and laugh at you. That’s where you struggle and don’t know what is that something I want to do in life so will also go and share with your boyfriend or girlfriend even they may not understand you in this particular perspective, So that is why the fourth type of friends comes in help. Who is that fourth type of friends? Are you interested!!?? Then make sure you read till the end.
This is very important because one thing is very important that certain times we need to understand that we have similar kind of intention because individuals always seeking to grow from one level to another level and have to be a bridge from one level to another level so for that the best type of friends they bring out best that we never imagine that, so that I want you to encourage today to have such fourth type of friends that GROWTH FRIENDS, these are the type of friends who will help you in growing in certain areas so we need a lot of people around us who are growing and they also have the intention to grow, these are not people who are just saying that “if get good grades my life will over or if I get fun and enjoyment that’s over or even just saying life is about relationships and love “.
The growth friends are who really help you in setting up the next level of boundaries and achieving it. That is what something missing in the current education system where the culture where people is growing together. So that is where the place growth friends meet to improve on various different things that they want to grow on.
So what I want you to do that if are serious then pause this and write it down 5 Important goals you want to achieve. For example in the area of health like you want better fitness but if you are with that gossips friends then they always pull your legs and you get hurt all the time, or if you share this with your girl or boyfriends they might hear you or they may not hear to you. And if you share it with grade friends then it does not matter to them. But if you are around people who are growing in that particular area then what will happen is they push you forward to do something really awesome Or if you want to learn communication then if you are around other 3types of friends then you will not grow, even if you are trying to do it alone by watching as many YouTube videos or going through as many courses as possible then it will not help you to grow, the reason is there is an element that is required for you to grow forward is support, the same thing is with even career also.
Now consider that people who are going to the gym as they come together as a cluster that is the reason they get that bonding and make more friends and more excited, motivated, and more inspired to do more. So if you see people who do jogging that’s with cluster, cluster means bunch or group of people who are interested in growing together.
This is where we started understanding there are many people outside who want to improve on so many different areas so if we have a cluster possibility for every individual to make this particular thing happening. So whatever the 5 goals what you have written or if you have not written then write it down, it may be communication skill, or skill development or you want to improve the relationship with your family or it could be you want to improve your wealth, or you want to start your own business or to start with stocks and shares whatever it may be, but you want cluster who will support you in growing in that direction. And you also need mentors who will support you there if you are that kind of person and want to explore more and need more support on this then we have cluster meetup happening every day.
So come join us and experience the cluster meet up and that’s what going to give you that kind of friends who will help you to grow and push you to achieve whatever goals you have with the best possibility. So there will be a link in the description so just see through that and if you want to be part of it and to experience this and even there will be more people who are sharing cluster meetup experience there in the comment box and that will give you an idea that how the cluster will help you to grow, whichever the area that you want to grow, so that make it happen and that most of the events are zoom meeting and that is really going to be helpful for you so make sure to come in with an open mind to grab as much as possible and make it all in. And I will be very happy to meet you live, and if you are liking this particular channel then make sure to click on the link below and subscribe to it.
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